Saturday, August 17, 2002

Yawn... Lazy Day

Very lazy day today. Last night I talked on the phone with "BB" until early this morning. So needless to say, I got up late and really didn't get much done. Yes, being a self employed photographer and an adult webmaster, I usually work on Saturdays - as well as almost every other day of the week. Anyway, I think I only crawled out of bed this morning because my "Ex" came over (with Starbuck's in hand) to fix me breakfast. Yes, we're best of friends. We're not sexually involved any longer, but I will talk about that at a later time. So after breakfast, I went through some photos, talked to some models on the phone, did minimal maintenance on an adult site and then hand submitted it to the search engines - which is very tedious, time consuming and something that you have to do at regular intervals. That's pretty much all I've done today. BUT, I did talk to "BB" awhile ago and she said that if she isn't too tried to drive then she'll come over for another "massage" after she gets off of work. So now I'm just kickin' back and hoping that she's not too tired...
 

Friday, August 16, 2002

Last Night - My First Internet Date

I don't always go out with or date models. I do go out with "Normal" women on occasion. My dating life had been a little slow lately and I was tired of the whole model scene so I thought that I would try internet dating. I joined an online service, did the whole profile thing and sent out tons of e-mail to potential "dates." Since my intro letters were funny and showed that I actually had character and brains, I received a lot of responses. Sadly, from that point on, 99.99% went no further. But I did exchange a few e-mails with this one girl who also showed she had a great sense of humor, character and brains. Let's call her "BB." She is so my type - Asian, petite, cute. Anyway, after a several e-mails we decided to IM each other and chat. We really had a great chat and decided that we should meet and go on a date... Dinner, movie, etc.. We then decided that she would just come to my house and we would watch a video. The day before our date I get an e-mail from her saying that she doesn't really know me and that she wouldn't feel comfortable coming over to watch a video on our first date because most guys are only after sex and that is not what she wants to do. Totally understandable. And, being a gentleman, I call her to let her know that that is ok... I'm not looking for sex and if she wants we can just meet some place public, go see a movie or whatever. During our conversation she changes her mind and decides that I'm an ok guy and coming over to watch a video would be kewl. Anyway... she shows up on time (thank God she isn't a model) and she is really cute: very tiny, shoulder length hair, nice smile and a rock hard body. We sit, talk for a while, eat some food and start the movie. Of course, since we have both already seen the movie, we chit-chat and get to know each other a little better. Since I'm a person that loves to touch and cuddle, about half way through the movie, I reach over start to caress her hand. Wow!!! It was like she was waiting for me to do it. She instantly responds by caressing my hand and arm. Anyway, by the end of the movie we were laying arm in arm on the floor and giving each other mini-massages. The movie ends and I ask her if she would like a real massage. NO... I'm not thinking about having sex. I do like giving massages and of course, since she has been massaging me, I'm hoping to get a real massage in return. She says yes, I put on some good music, we go into my bedroom and she lies down (fully clothed) on the bed - which is much more comfortable than my living room floor. I ask her if she feels comfortable taking her shirt off and she removes it. I start giving her a full body, head to toe, front and back massage. I won't go into details but I'm really good at it and she certainly enjoyed it. As I mentioned, her body was rock solid. Not overly muscular, but definitely very, very toned. After about an hour or so, I finish, she thanks me and she asks if I would like a massage. YES! She gave me one of the best non-sexual full body, head to toe, front and back massages that I have ever had. She paid attention to every detail. Didn't miss a spot - every finger, every toe, my ears, everything! Everything except my penis, because... after all, it was a non-sexual massage. And that was definitely kewl with me because the massage was really wonderful. She massaged me for about an hour, then we laid on the bed and talked. Keep in mind, I have only know her for about six hours now. But within a few minutes we were kissing. And then we were touching. And then... it didn't take long until we were really getting into each other (no pun intended). Again, I'm not gonna go into details, but I will say... we both enjoyed it and it was great. Afterwards we laughed about how neither one of us was looking to have sex and that was probably why we hit it off so well and had sex. We talked and cuddled and she ended up staying the night. In the morning we had sex again and again it was great. And yes... of course we used condoms!!! We got up, took a shower together, ate breakfast, watched another movie, talked and cuddled most of the day. Then, after about spending 20 hours together, she had to get going. We hugged and kissed, said that we would definitely get together soon, and she left. WOW!!! What a great first date!!!
 

Thursday, August 15, 2002

UpGrades & Quick Reviews

No model interviews today so I just worked on upgrading a few of my adult websites. This is the part of being a webmaster that is not so exciting. Actually it's pretty boring. Basically what I do when I upgrade a site is change out the photo galleries with fresh pictures, banner and links. That way when a surfer comes back to my sites they will see something different and new and thus they may stay a member of my sites a little longer. And that simply translates into more money. So upgrading often is alot of tedious work but always a good idea. Just in case you're interested, the sites that I upgraded today are "Blonde-O-Rama," "Cheerleaders & Teens in Uniform" and "Mega-Voyeur." The titles pretty much speak for themselves, but descriptions of the sites are as follows...

"Blonde-O-Rama - Blondes, blondes and nothing but sexy, dumb, big breasted blondes that love to fuck." There is also a "Blonde" jokes gallery on the site that is updated every month. It's a good site if you're into Dumb Blondes with Big Tits.

"Cheerleaders & Teens in Uniform - Cheerleader sluts, sexy schoolgirls, naughty nurses & other barely legal Teens in uniform." What can I say? Every guy always wanted the cheerleaders that they went to school with or has a fantasy about having sex with a nurse, etc.. So, here is a site with tons of hot and sexy cheerleaders and other teens in uniform. Again, it's a pretty good site with over 300 new photos every month.

"Mega-Voyeur - Galleries of hidden cams, toilet cams, shower cams and lots of other voyeur, amateur, upskirt and down blouse pics of cute teens, college girls, horny housewives and other masturbating babes." Voyeur sites are pretty popular right now and this one has different galleries with hundreds of photos of various ethnic models "caught" on hidden cam. Each gallery is a series. Which means that the camera captures the models as they change clothes, pee, masturbate, etc.. So if you're into voyeurism, it's a good site to check out. Plus the site is updated with new galleries on a regular basis, so there is always something new to see.

Since these are my sites, I'm fairly biased in my reviews of them. But honestly, they're pretty good sites. If you get a chance, check 'em out. If not... no problem. Just to let you know, I don't think that all of my sites are good or worth checking out. I've built some sites that are pretty damn bad as well. Of course, I'm not gonna promote or review those for you right now. But who knows, maybe I will at a later date.
 

Wednesday, August 14, 2002

Slow Day So Far

Interviews with more models. The first one already flaked. She called yesterday to tell me that she had to move the interview with me to a later time today because she just got booked for a scene (adult boy/girl). Always glad that they call and let me know... But the time that she moved the interview to has already come and gone and I have not heard from her at all. So, just another model flake that I won't work with. I have another model and her boyfriend/manager coming here in a little bit. They called for directions and to confirm the time. So hopefully they will show. I also met a an aspiring make-up artist this morning. She did not have lot of experience or too big of a portfolio. But the work that she did have was fairly good and she was fun, easy to talk with and she had a great attitude about doing the work - both adult and non/adult. So, I will deffo give her a call and "Test" with her the next time I need a make-up artist. "Testing" means that it will not be a paid shoot. She just does the job for fun and/or experience so she can get some "tear sheets" for her portfolio. But more importantly, so I can see how good of a job she does and also to see how well we work together. Since she is new and just getting started, I cannot just hire her to do a professional job. Who really knows... You have to think worse case scenario. She may freak under pressure, not show up, be rude to the models and/or clients or just actually do a terrible job. So for me, it is always standard practice to "Test" a new make-up artist before I actually hire them for a paid gig. I will usually "Test" them on a free or low budget shoot or on a shoot that is just for fun. And if they do good on that and everything is kewl, then yes, will deffo hire them on an upcoming paid gig. Well it is now later and of course the other model with her boyfriend/manager did not show up. Oh well, move on...
 

Tuesday, August 13, 2002

Model Interviews

Today I interviewed two models for my friend's adult video shoot. The first one actually showed up early... way too early. By the way, I work out of my home, so all of the interviews are conducted here as well as most of the photo shoots. Anyway, she shows up an hour early... just as I was just getting out of the shower. I guess that it's better than her being late and making me wait for her to show up! She was an ok looking Black girl with a nice petite body and HUGE fake tits. Way too big for my tastes (no pun intended). She has some experience and has been in and out of the biz for about five years. She has a regular job and only occasionally does adult movies to make a few extra bucks. I tell her that the job will involve hard-core boy/girl scenes and she says that she has no problem with that. So in finishing up the interview, I tell her that (as is quite normal) I need to take a few nude pictures of her. She asks if she can leave her clothes on... I joke with her and say that they wouldn't be nude pictures then. She counters back with... she will take her clothes off but would feel more comfortable leaving her bra and panties on. So of course,  if she doesn't want to, then I'm not going to try to talk her into it. And if she has a problem just getting nude for a few quick snap-shots, then I am certainly not going to hire her for an hard-core adult video shoot. So, not trying to complicate the now already uncomfortable situation, I say that would be fine. Leaving her bra and butt-floss panties on, she removes her clothes. Wow! Huge fake tits! 34DD!!! Anyway, I snap a few pics... Close-up headshot, full body front and full body back. She gets dressed, we shake hands and she is out the door. Good-bye! Don't call me, I'll call you! Which I won't do... An hour later, the second model (and her husband/manager) show up "on-time" for her interview. She is a babe. 22 years old, long blonde hair, 5'7'', 110 lbs, 34DD-24-34. Yes her breasts are fake, but they look good on her. We talk about the video job and she and her husband have no problem with it. She drops her clothes for some pics... Close-up headshot, full body front, close-up front, full body back, close-up butt shot, spread leg front and last but not least - spread leg close-up pussy shot. A totally clean-shaven babe. You may notice, I take more pics of the girls that I like than the ones I don't like. But it always make me feel a little uncomfortable taking nude pics of a model with her husband or boyfriend standing there watching me. But he was pretty kewl, so it wasn't too bad. After the pics, she got dressed, we talked a little more, shook hands and they left. So in closing this post, I will definitely recommend her to my friend for his shoot.
 

Monday, August 12, 2002

Adult Models

I was hired by a friend of mine to interview adult models for his upcoming video shoot. I can't complain too much because I get to meet and see a lot of nude models, but it's not all it is cracked up to be. 90% of all models are flakes. Not just in the adult industry, but ALL models. It gets so annoying to set up interviews with these so called "professional" models and then they just don't show up for the interview. Nor do they call to say that they won't be able to make it. I understand that things come up and that sometimes you're gonna be late or you have to reschedule or something. And when that happens, a phone call is all it takes... But most of the models that come through (or I should say - "don't" come through these doors) don't even bother to call to let me know that they can't make it. It is such a waste of my time to schedule these interviews and then sit around waiting for a model to show up. I know... it is part of the biz, but it's still annoying nonetheless. Ok, I have to be fair... Some of the models do show up. But of the ones that show up, only a small fraction of them are worth photographing - especially in the adult biz. Some of these girls are so freaking weird - not to mention, also very damaged - not all of them, but a lot!. It is sad, a majority of them come from broken homes, don't have a lot of education and have usually had physical and/or mental abuse - either by their family members or their boyfriends, husbands, etc.. Also, a lot of them are trying to live "The Life" - sex, drugs and rock & roll... and it really shows. Most of the girls I interview are only 18 or 19 years old and they already look old and hard and sadly... they're going to age very quickly. I seldom will even bother to interview an adult model that is over 24 years old. Once they reach that age, especially if they've been in the biz for a while (which means usually more than a few months), they are already worn out and most look much, much older than they actually are. Over the years, I have noticed a few red flags on the ones that have some problems. Drugs, alcohol and the fact that they are doing porn are the obvious. But other red flags can include (but are not limited to) big fake tits, tattoos and body piercings. No, I'm not talking about a little red rose on their ankle or something simple like that, but multiple tatts everywhere. And of course I am not talking about a model just having her ears pierced... but ones that have their nipples, belly button and/or their vaginas pierced - usually more than once. Yeah I know, these "red flags" can be sexy and they can be kewl and not mean a thing... but all I'm saying is that I have noticed that these are usually good indicators of a model that has or has had some problems. But as I said, not all of the models fall into this category. Some of them have a good head on their shoulders and are really kewl and healthy (physically & mentally). And yes of course, I have even hung out, dated and become friends with a few of these rare ones -  but that is for another post. Yup, as a photographer, one of my jobs is to interview these models and hire the ones that I think would be the best for the job... And during the interview I really like to talk to them and find out who they are. And to be honest, not matter how good they might look, If I don't like them, then I don't hire them! Plain and simple - I do not want to work with somebody that I don't like. Anyway, aside from finding out who they are, the interview is pretty much like any other job interview... we talk about the job, talk about experience, amount of pay, etc.. The only thing that is different than a regular job interview is that the models have to get nude and Digitals or Polaroids are taken. Why? First reason is to make sure that a model will take her clothes off and has no problem doing so. I mean you don't want to hire a model, hire a crew and set up a shoot only to find out the model doesn't want to take her clothes off. Trust me, it happens! Secondly, she takes her clothes off for an interview because, as a photographer, I need to make sure that she has the body type that I need for the shoot. I don't want to hire a model only to find out later that she has three tits, an ugly ass, cottage-cheese thighs and tattoos all over her body. So yes, models have to get nude for an adult interview... But no, as much as it might be a fantasy for everybody, there is no sex... at least not on my interviews. Yes, I am a  big flirt and I do flirt with a lot of the models, but it is a business and I try to run it very professionally! And again, trust me... a lot of these models you would NOT want to have sex with!!! My associates, partners and clients that hire me would kill me for this but, I actually talk some of the models that I meet out of doing adult work. Yeah I know, I know... But I do have a heart of gold and a conscience to go along with it. And some of these models that I meet just don't need to be doing this type of work. They are young, impressionable, confused and just need a guiding hand to get them going in the right direction. Yeah, even though I shoot adult material... I do have morals.
 

Sunday, August 11, 2002

My First Post

Hello and welcome to my Blog... This is my first post and I am not really sure what to write as I am new to the world of Blogging. I guess I will start by telling you a little about myself. My web name is "Neo." No, I did not steal it from "The Matrix." I have been using that name long before the movie came out. Though my friends would disagree, I think that I am just a normal guy and like most guys (and probably a lot of women as well) I am fascinated by women. No, not just their bodies, but every aspect of them. But at the moment, let's talk about the physical... What do I find attractive in a woman? At this point in my life, I am very attracted to Asians and Latinas and I tend to go for "spinners" (petite woman). And of course, I like nice bodies. They don't have to be perfect but I'm very attracted to... pretty eyes, beautiful smile, full pouty lips, long dark hair, flat stomach, firm breasts (they don't have to be big, just nicely shaped), and of course, a nice ass... well I guess that "nice" is a relative term. Anyway, you get the idea. If I could find one (or more) women with all of these qualities (plus they would have to be smart, funny, rich and it goes without saying... they would have to love sex as much as I do, if not more) then I would be a very happy man. Let's face it... I love women! And I pretty much run my life around women. No, no... I'm not pussy whipped or anything, well maybe I am... but that is for a later post. Anyway, almost every aspect of my life (and by choice too) has to do with women. My work? I'm a self-employed photographer. I shoot actor's headshots, fashion, soft-core adult, etc.. And recently I have become an adult webmaster (check out my links in the right column). So what do I do almost every day of my life? Well, besides building and maintaining adult websites (yawn), I look at, interview, photograph and work with young (over 18) beautiful nude women. Check out the "Blogger Babes" they are all girls that I have photographed and worked with. And in future Blog entries I will discuss and write about some of them. Yeah... I know... it is a tough job! But somebody has to do it. Yup, it can be a lot of fun and it does have its benefits... BUT, it is a job and it's a lot of hard (no pun intended) work. It is definitely interesting, but it's certainly not the wild, sex filled, party life that we all fantasize about. And that brings me back to what this Blog is about... Me, my work, life, rants, opinions, advice, reviews, erotic stories, sexual adventures and pretty much what ever I want it to be about. But mostly, this Blog is about SEX!